The Art of Sexual Pleasure
If you are looking to get more sexual pleasure out of your life, consider more acrobatic positions. Keep the most common sex positions in rotation and consider making a few tiny acrobatic tweaks to help send your sexual pleasures to the moon and back.
The secret to having more intense, enjoyable sex is knowing how to angle yourself so that you're hitting your most sensitive areas while allowing yourself to really let go and relax.
Let's look at some of the most common sex positions and add a little acrobatic tweaks.
1. Top Rider
Many people favor this common sex position because you are in control of the angle and thrusting speed. To make it even more intense, instead of simply sitting on top, get on your knees and lean forward, moving in and out, nice and slow. This motion will help hit your G-spot while allowing you to angle your clit as you use your arms for balance.
If you are in the mood for experimenting, try a vibrating cock ring. You will have a lot of control to really increase your sensation.
2. The Catcher
This position is like Top Rider but instead of resting your knees outside your partner's legs, you will plant/rest your feet. From there, you can control your speed and depth to find the exact right spots for you.
This is a great position for stimulating some of the deeper vaginal erogenous zones. The penetrating partner try making circles, going back and forth, or tilting side to side.
3. Doggy Style
When a partner enters you from behind, as with this common sex position, it's a tight fit, but it's also an ideal angle to hit your G-spot. The beauty of this move is that it also leaves your clit really exposed, so it's easy to reach around and stimulate you manually, or for you to touch yourself.
Low Doggy Style
As one of the most common sex positions out there it makes sense that there are plenty of ways to acrobatically tweak doggy style to make sex even more pleasurable. Try dropping onto your elbows during doggy to open up your hips even more, which allows for deeper penetration.
After your partner is inside you, they can lift and hold one or both of your legs, almost like a sexy wheelbarrow, and thrust from there. Arching your back in that position gives you the opportunity to gently press downward onto his penis, and that's going to reach the G-spot.
Do you love a dual oral session? Here is how you can make the 69 sex position even better; both of you lie on your sides. Both of you have easier access to the goodies.
To make this common sex position even more earth-shattering, have your partner use a vibrator on you while you perform oral sex.
Rather than do 69 while lying down, turn it up a notch by doing it while standing. For this different sex position, have your partner lie face-up on the bed with their feet flat on the bed to get a good footing. Then get into the 69 position and wrap your arms around their pelvis, while your partner grabs onto your legs and places them over their shoulders. Once you both have a tight grip on each other, slowly stand to perform mutual oral on each other.
You can be really orgasmic in spooning because when you are both lying next to each other with your partner against your back, the angle helps hit your G-spot and go really slow so nothing slips out. While your partner's hands are free in this position, grab them to show exactly how you want your nipples to be touched for even more stimulation.
6. Seated Straddle
Focus on your breathing. As you breathe in, your partner breathes out — doing this helps your body expand and open, offering up more opportunity to achieve orgasm. When you are sitting face to face, you can look into each other's eyes, and that boosts intimacy. Inhaling deeply during intercourse increases oxygen and blood flow throughout the body.
7. Lifted Missionary
The acrobatics on missionary do not need to stop there. Playing with this common sex position by lifting your legs up (you can keep them spread, so one is on either of your partner's shoulders or place both on one side). This is a great position for G-spot stimulation.
8. Lazy Dog
The lazy dog is like doggy style, but both partners are flat against the bed. It's great for when both partners are feeling turned on but have less energy. We highly recommend using a sex toy or vibrator on your clit while in this position.
9. The High Chair
Take an arm-less chair and have the penetrating partner sit in it. Allow your partner to ride on top, using the floor for leverage. It's easier to maintain for a longer session than cowgirl, plus you can feel like a lap dance.
10. The Wheel barrow
If you want to move beyond lying down sex positions, try standing up and inverted in the wheelbarrow position. Your partner should stand a few inches from a wall or by the edge of the bed with knees slightly bent. Facing away from your partner, place your hands flat on the floor (or bed) and raise your less dominant leg up to reach their hand. When that leg is secure, lift your dominant leg off the ground with your partner's assistance, and push your pelvis back toward theirs. Use the palms of your hands to steady yourself as the two of you really get moving.
11. Over the Edge
There are plenty of different sex positions to try, but there is one style in particular that often gets overlooked: inversions. To try this different acrobatic sex style, have your partner on their knees while you lie a few inches away from the bed's edge. Wrap your legs around their waist in missionary position. Then, as your partner thrusts, they should hold your hips while you bend over the edge of the bed.
12. The Split
With your partner lying down, place a pillow underneath their lower back, and determine which type of split you will get into vertical or horizontal. Then, extend your dominant front leg over your partner's body while slowly sliding down for penetration. Keep your palms flat to leverage and support your weight. Once you are at a comfortable depth level, extend your back leg, and slowly slide up and down.